How to Have a Back to School Safety Review with Your Kids

The beginning of the school year is the perfect time to review important back to school safety rules to help set the stage for a great and safe new year.

The beginning of the school year is a time to start new and refresh the old. As you prepare by buying school supplies and looking over new class schedules, use this time to refresh another important element of your child’s life — safety rules.

Review these important back to school safety rules to help set the stage for a great and safe new school year.

Social Media Safety

Only accept friend requests from people you know. When you accept requests from strangers, you can never be sure who they really are. People create fake profiles to target teens and younger users, so always ignore requests from people you don’t know.

Never meet someone you met online in real life. If you happen to meet someone online who you don’t know, never agree to meet them personally. This is one of the most dangerous situations created through social media. If someone repeatedly asks you to meet in person, tell an adult.

If you experience bullying online, tell an adult. If you are being bullied, do not respond as that can make things worse. Also, if you see someone else being bullied, don’t get directly involved. Instead, tell a trusted adult, parent, or teacher who can help resolve the problem.

Smartphone Safety

Don’t give your password to anyone. Even if a teacher or adult asks for your password, say no. Tell them you need your parent to be there if they want to access your phone.

Always think twice before sending a text or photo. If you don’t know if you should send something (or post it online), ask yourself how you would feel if the message were posted on the front page of the newspaper. If you would feel embarrassed or ashamed with your post going public, don’t share it. You never know what can happen to your content once you send it to someone else, so only share things you feel comfortable with the world seeing.

Walking and Driving Safety 

Do not look at your phone while walking near streets. When looking at your phone, you become unaware of your surroundings and are less likely to see a vehicle coming near you.

Never look at your phone while driving. Distracted driving is the number one cause of teen accidents. Put your phone in the backseat while driving and utilize the “#X It Can Wait” campaign to pause your text conversations when you get behind the wheel.

Related Post: Distracted Driving Causes More Accidents Than Ever Known

Obey the speed limit and practice safe driving. Limitations on speed are set for a reason. It is for your safety and for the safety of others on or near the road. Always adhere to speed restrictions to protect yourself and those around you.

As a parent, you are probably already using your phone to prepare for the new school. Over 75% of parents use their phone for back-to-school shopping to find coupons, compare deals, and find nearby stores.

But there is another way for parents to use their phones to prepare for the upcoming school year.

The MamaBear app, which is available for iPhones and Androids, provides parents with real-time updates when their child gets a new follower and posts a message through their social media accounts. It also uses GPS technology to send alerts when your child reaches their intended destination or goes over the speed limit while driving.

It is a Peace of Mind Parenting™ app that turns your smartphone into a tool to make the back-to-school season safer and less stressful for both parent and child.

 

 

Gaming Tips to Keep Kids Safe Online

Gaming has evolved from a single-player, one console experience to an interconnected network of millions of players and thousands of downloadable games.

Gaming has evolved from a single-player, one console experience to an interconnected network of millions of players and thousands of downloadable games. With such a broad reach and level of connectivity, online gaming is something that parents need to understand and regulate in order to keep their children playing safely.

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Know the Platforms

Parents should get to know the different type of gaming platforms. Parents usually think of gaming as something kids play on consoles (like an Xbox 360, PlayStation 3 or Wii) and hand-held devices (like a Nintendo DS).
But games are also commonly played on computers, tablets, and smartphones, as well as in web browsers and through social sites. They come in a variety of styles.

 

  • Boxed Games – traditional disc or cartridge that is inserted in a console or computer
  • Digital Downloads – game downloaded directly to a console or computer (Xbox 360, PlayStation 3 and Wii have their own online marketplaces)
  • Mobile Games – app or game downloaded to a mobile device
  • Subscription Games – game that is streamed and accessed through an account
  • Free-to-Play – ad-supported games that are free but include paid upgrades and add-ons (such as extra lives and tools), frequently found on mobile devices
  • Social Networking Games – connected with and played within social sites (often through Facebook), pulls user information from profiles and offers paid upgrades and add-ons

Ask your child which platforms they are playing and familiarize yourself with that style of gaming.

Review the Rules with Your Kids

Set clear gaming rules and expectations with your child. Here are a few MamaBear recommendations to consider:

Set a strong password. Whenever possible use a password that is at least eight characters and includes at least one number, letter, and symbol. Avoid using the same exact password for every login.

Protect personal information. Do not create accounts that use your personal information. Create vague usernames that do not include your personal details (username YankeesFan01 instead of TomSmith01). Never list or offer up your location, gender, and age.

Hide physical features. Some games include voice and/or video chat. Do not use either of these items unless you are able to disguise yourself, and do not post a personal photo to your user profile. Use an avatar instead.

Avoid uncomfortable interactions. If another user makes you uncomfortable with their tone, language or dialog, remove yourself from the situation. Tell an adult and block the player. Trust your gut. If the situation feels unnatural, it is more than likely inappropriate.

Related: Dangers of Talking to Strangers Online

Understand the limits of online friends. Online friends should remain online friends. Never agree to meet a player in real life.

Always ask before downloading or buying a new game or upgrade. Never download a game without parental permission. This is especially true for paid games. Parents need to review each game before giving permission for play.

Never accept a download or a “mod” from another user. Other users may offer codes, mods (modifications), or downloads to you (often saying it will improve your performance in the game). Never accept those requests as they may include malware which is harmful to your console, computer, or phone.

Set a time limit. Don’t game all day and night. Set a time limit for use each day.

Play out in the open. If kids are playing by the rules, there should be no reason that they can’t play where their parents can see it. Parents should keep game consoles in the open and periodically check-in while kids are playing.

Understand the Rating

The Entertainment Software Rating Board utilizes a Rating Guide so parents and users are aware of the game’s contents and capabilities before playing. Use this rating system to determine which games are right for your kids.

Interactive Elements Ratings explain the sharing and interactive capabilities of the game. Use these ratings to see what information will be collected and possibly shared, and to see how users are able to interact with each other.

Interactive Elements Ratings explain the sharing and interactive capabilities of the game. Use these ratings to see what information will be collected and possibly shared, and to see how users are able to interact with each other.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Rating Categories suggest the age appropriateness of the game.
Content Descriptors explain which elements of the game factored into its rating category, such as alcohol reference, cartoon violence, language, etc. There are about two dozen different descriptions.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Content Descriptors explain which elements of the game factored into its rating category, such as alcohol reference, cartoon violence, language, etc. There are about two dozen different descriptions so use the ESRB’s full list of content descriptors to evaluate the content of the game.

Keeping your child safe with online gaming requires time and diligence but risks associated outweigh the investment of time.

See how MamaBear can easily help you connect with and protect your child through your iPhone or Android device.